Preparing for COVID-19: A Healthcare Guide for Survivors of Violence
Download Healthcare Guide Download DID Emergency Card April 2020 Violence can have unexpected effects for survivors, even after the violence has stopped. If you’ve survived child sexual abuse, sexual exploitation, or sexual assault, some [...]
Coping with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) in times of crisis
For 25 years, I have moved through the world as if I am one by paying attention to my thoughts and feelings and making decisions about what, when and how I do things. During this [...]
Olga Trujillo, JD and Patricia Moen Share Tips on Trauma- Informed Approach
Olga Trujillo, JD and Patricia Moen Share Tips (available for download) on Enhancing Victim Advocacy, Legal Advocacy and Access to Justice through Trauma- Informed Approach[...]
Deconstructing Stigma: Changing Attitudes About Mental Health
Olga shares her story with McLean Hospital's project, Deconstructing Stigma: Changing Attitudes About Mental Health as part of their campaign to change attitudes about mental health through interviews and photographs with people across the [...]
On the Mindful Things Podcast discussing dissociative identity disorder
Olga was a guest on the Mindful Things Podcast discussing dissociative identity disorder. She explains how she retreated within her own mind each time she experienced trauma and discusses her dedication to helping others [...]
If Someone You Know Was Sexually Abused or Raped – Part Two
A few weeks ago I described some of the ways that people helped me talk about what had happened to me as a child and by talking about it, begin the healing process. These people [...]
When someone you know is sexually abused or raped
April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month and Child Abuse Prevention Month. I am reposting this for those who know someone who has been abused. This is how you can help. We all know -- [...]
DID & Healing: It Gets Better
Now after many years of healing I am happy, and not just on the surface. Despite how difficult it can still be to grieve and remember all I have been through, I am proud [...]
Talking About Sex and Sexual Abuse with Latinas
In Latino culture you aren’t supposed to talk about your problems. You aren’t supposed to think about yourself if you are a woman. You are supposed to think about your family and care for [...]
Still it can be a struggle
I've been healing from the trauma of Child Sexual Abuse for years off and on. My work both personally and professionally has been to help others understand the impact of trauma and more recently [...]
The Sum of My Parts – A Memoir
My upcoming memoir, The Sum of My Parts: A Survivor’s Story of Dissociative Identity Disorder, emphasizes the healing process and the nature of resilience. These installments from Chapter One contain some descriptions of violence [...]
If Someone You Know Has Been Sexually Abused as a Child
We all know and many of us are close to people who have survived child sexual abuse or rape. Chances are, many of you reading this are survivors yourself. We often encourage survivors to [...]
The six therapeutic tools I found most helpful
The more I think about it, the more I marvel at the skill of the psychiatrist who helped me heal from Dissociative Identity Disorder. As I look back on our work together, I can [...]
Dissociating is like watching your life from 50 feet off the ground
In order for me to learn how to stop dissociating, I first had to figure out when I was doing it. I had to recognize how it felt and learn to see the difference [...]
The Unraveling: DID and Me
When I first found out I had Dissociative Identity Disorder I was devastated. I was afraid of people finding out, thought perhaps I would lose my job. I was afraid my husband would leave [...]
Letting Yourself Go
After years of healing the abuse I suffered as a child and adolescent, I still found that I was emotionally unavailable at times. I've worked very hard at letting myself go and letting people [...]
Examining the Impact of Reaching In
One of the things that made my healing so successful was working with a psychiatrist that understood that reaching in could be harmful. He knew that reaching into my mind to pull out the [...]
Sum Of My Parts – A Memoir
The Sum of My Parts is a memoir I have been writing since last February. It's about how I developed Dissociative Identity Disorder, DID, discovered I had it and then details the healing process. [...]
Assisting Survivors of Domestic and Sexual Violence in Communities of Color
In responding to survivors of sexual and domestic violence in communities of color and immigrant communities a different approach from our traditional models is needed. Survivors for the most part don't call the police, [...]
Trauma and Why First Responders Need to Know
I've been doing a lot of trainings lately for multidisciplinary audiences on The Impact of Physical and Sexual Violence. The Impact is almost always very traumatic for victim/survivors and we depending the type of [...]
Making it Through the Holidays
The holidays can be hard for anyone. It can be a time of stress, sadness, mourning and profound disappointment. For me it has been and continues to be a time that I am triggered [...]
Tools for the Healing Process
Over the past 17 years off and on my psychiatrist used a number of tools that helped me learn about the healing process from Dissociative Identity Disorder. In writing my memoir and in preparing [...]
Health Care and Trauma Survivors
Survivors of sexual violence often have a hard time going to the doctor or the dentist. Doctors have a job to do and a limited amount of time to do it in. They are [...]
How could a parent hurt their child?
I get a lot of questions about my father when I present on my personal experience. What would make a father hurt their child the way my father hurt me? Its been something I've [...]
Integration
I just finished writing two chapters where I describe some of the sessions I had with my psychiatrist in the first couple years of my work with him. He was very skillful in illustrating [...]
Accepting the Diagnoses
When I first found out I had Dissociative Identity Disorder I panicked. I was afraid about people finding out, about losing my job and losing my relationship. I thought it meant I was 'crazy'. [...]
The Healing Process
I've started writing about the therapeutic process I went through to heal from the abuse and the Dissociative Identity Disorder I developed. The more I think about it the more I marvel at the [...]
Building Resilience
Over the past few months I've been asked what helped me survive when I was growing up. In the book that I've been writing I've been capturing the things people did and also the [...]
Trauma Training for Multidisciplinary Audiences
In Idaho 300 plus participants attended their annual 2 Days in June training Sponsored and Organized by the Idaho Council on Domestic Violence and Victim Services. The audience included law enforcement, prosecutors, judges, medical [...]
Immigration Training for Advocates
I was in Reno, NV on the 27th of May conducting an all day training on immigration and human trafficking. The audience varied in experience and came from all professions. We abandoned the power [...]
Tips based on My Healing Process
My psychiatrist and I have worked well together because of the safe and respectful relationship he set up with me. He was strict with boundaries but only with respect to what we talked about [...]
My Healing & Down Time
Over the past few months, I've had a number of people ask me what I do when I'm not training or working on my book. So I thought this holiday weekend would be the [...]
Sexual Assault Advocates Training
At the Washington Coalition of Sexual Assault Programs' 10th Annual Conference I presented a keynote presentation that connected how the coping skills children develop to survive child sexual abuse can leave them vulnerable for [...]
Culture in Healing and Resilience
On May 19th I presented at the Delaware Coalition Against Domestic Violence Annual Advocate Retreat. We explored how growing up as a Latina affected my experience of violence and resilience. I've realized in my [...]
Working with Law Enforcement
I've conducted trainings lately for law enforcement audiences on Assessing Credibility of Survivor/Victims. In Evansville, Indiana I did the same training two days in a row to get to as many law enforcement officers, [...]
Child Abuse Training
At the end of April I traveled to Niceville, Florida to be part of a training for a multidisciplinary audience of professionals that respond to and assist with child abuse cases. The group was [...]
The Sum of My Parts Now Available
This memoir follows Olga as she splits herself into “parts” and develops dissociative identity disorder with the abuse, and then struggles to merge these parts and overcome the disorder in adulthood.
A Survivor’s Story Now Available
Olga’s critically acclaimed first-hand account of the impact of violence in her life is available in both English and Spanish.